how to make my fling(boy) fall in love with me after a fight?

11 years ago

hello, i am 31 years old girl and im dating a boy of 25 years old since 1 year. We started with flirting . In the beginning , he was so into me.. later after 4 months , he realized that im too older for him and he started confining his feelings with me. Our relationship was just like friends with benifits. he likes me but not serious with me and im serious with him , hw has made everythign clear to me but i wanted to take it lightly because i like being with him and he also like to be with me . we had sex so many time too. after having sex he told me that he had kissed one of his friends . It was so disturbing . he could have told me this before but told me having breaking my virginity. still im meeting him but now i feel he is not interested on me like before. So what should i do now? im so hurt and sad. he is talking to me because he doesnot want to feel guilty and see me cry.

I feel he has started ignoring me. he only talks to me when ever he likes and wants to have sex after that he is rude to me and makes me always jealous. so how to react when your fling starts ignoring you? how can i make him fall in love with me?

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  • T
    11 years ago

    Get out of that situation with your "fling" now. He is only using you. You are MUCH BETTER than that. You are not his plaything. It will hurt for a while and you will miss him, but you will find someone who will truly LOVE YOU:) Good Luck.

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